Endings: Accepting Transitions and Change

“It was the best of times, it was the worst of times.” (C Dickens A Tale of Two Cities)

Psalms“For everything there is a season, And time for every purpose under heaven.” (Ecclesiastes 3:1)

Everything has its time: there are times in life when things are new, and there are times when some things must end.

I’ve just moved to Spain and have been writing about “New Beginnings” on my blog: http://sarahtunexaminelife.blogspot.com

But with new beginnings there are, inevitably, endings too.

How do you come to terms with the discovery that the way you’ve thought or interacted for years needs to change? When your dearest friends are far away, and you’ve few new folks in whom to confide, how do you pray, live, love through that?

The seed is faith. No matter what you may think or feel, it is the Spirit and our spirit, working in harmony, that is the reality. When everything seems in flux, faith is our bedrock.

Recently, I felt pretty low. I didn’t even feel like praying! But faithfully, I took out a Psalm each day for a week and read through it, allowing myself to reflect a bit at a time on what the psalmist was saying.

“In You, O LORD, I put my trust…” (Psalm 7, 11, 31, 71 – verse 1) empty chair

And do you know: even when you can’t see in front or behind, when everything is new and nothing familiar, when excitement wanes and you want someone close to say, ‘Here I am, for you’ and no one is there, do you know you don’t have to drum up positive feelings? Nor do you have to wallow in misery. Simply, allow yourself to be right where you are – physically, emotionally and spiritually – and wait. You might want to make only a few decisions – none other than what to wear or what to make for dinner – and wait. Tell the LORD what’s on your heart and mind- and wait. Ask Him for your deepest need, even if you don’t believe He’ll fulfill it – and wait.

God hears. God restores. God fulfills.

pic onlyI’m in a different place than I was a week ago. God answered my prayer, it’s true. But it isn’t in the answering of the prayer that help comes – but so much more in the waiting.

God bless you. Have a merry Christmas month and see you in 2015!

In the meantime, I welcome comments, thoughts, sharing.

 

 

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5 thoughts on “Endings: Accepting Transitions and Change

  1. Dearest Ellie, sister in the Lord,

    Thank you so much for your encouraging word. I am glad you found beauty in the post.
    Perhaps my most favorite scripture is from Philippians: Forgetting those things which are behind and looking to what lies ahead, I press on…
    It seems God has put some of the same Spirit within us!
    God bless you and yours for this Christmas Season.
    I hope you’ll drop into Life from the Lighthouse again.

  2. mmmm, my computer kicked me off before I finished my sentence, strange. Anyway I was saying that some of my patients had so much baggage that unless they trust in that Biblical verse, they will never be able to forgive and go forward. Like Lewes Smedes once wrote, “To forgive is to set the prisoner free, and to realize that the prisoner was you.” So true – suppressed anger destroys the very soul of the one who carries it within! Enjoyed your reply, thank you! Blessings,

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